Hang in there man, If I were in your situation, I would at least expect total honesty out of her. I think it would be the very least of what she owes you. Not knowing something and wondering would be more painful than having everything out in the open.
females can be bigger dicks than males. my condolences, hang in there and like MSP said, you'll find someone better.
I recommend a Garth Brooks song called "Unanswered Prayers". There's a lot of good country music (and beer) that would probably suit right now.
country music never helps depression really it only causes it/makes it worse. btw i remember you as stryfe. im sorry to hear about things. love...it is a motherfucker.
My girl did the same thing. Two years out the window. Sorry to hear it man. I hope that it didn't go down like shane said.
Feeling bad myself. My wife has a history of emotional problems. Lately things for her have been going down hill.She had surgery to remove a fatty growth on her shoulder, then 3 weeks later had a bone spur removed from same shoulder. She lost her job, screwed up a good job interview, cant find work and moneys getting low. Then her friend Merrie from Washington comes to visit and is so happy. She net a man and is in love. She's never been so happy. My wife says, I dont feel that way about Jeffrey. Three days later, after 27 years she says out of the blue, " I want a divorce. I've retained an attourney and it's expensive. Call your Aunt and ask for a loan. I've been advised not to dicuss anything financial. Please move your things from the bedroom and into your office(one of the bedrooms) since you cant afford your own place" And just like that. After nursing her back to health, her 3 stays in the psychiatric ward. I stood by her and she wants a divorce? "You want one? you got it." Reason? I'm not ambitious enough and dont make enough money. I have champaign and you have a beer wallet. Oh by the way, shes about to turn 50. I feel sick. The pain is so intense. I'm scared, feel sad and lonely. I just lost my best friend. Gone. Just like that. Everyone was surprised. Shocked. Most everyone has been supporting me and avoiding her. They all think she snapped. I know shes not seeing anyone and has contacted an old boy friend. I cant do that to myself so I stopped looking. Must concentrate on me. My friends all say, even her 2 best friends, that I'm better off without her. Shes turned into her mother and will face reality soon enough. Run and dont look back. All good advice. And I will go on with my life. But for now. My heart is broken and It hurts so much.
Damn that blows buddy so much so i was going to bust your balls on how old this thread was but i just don't have the heart to now.
lmao why post on mine when there has been like 3 other divorce threads that are newer than this one?! sorry to hear about your divorce though. That really sucks.
sounds like some sort of google search turning up divorce counselling. tweak3d pwns. sorry to hear, jeffrey. there are no words.
Holy zombie thread, batman! Jesus, this was the first of the really depressing "so my wife left me" threads.
Seems we're about the same age jeffrey, sounds like a bitch kitty of a situation your in, from personal experience I must say, RUN!!!! get the best attorney you can, take all you can get and RUN!!!! Get shed of the bitch and keep your sanity. Today must be dead thread day, the listening thread came up too.
FUCK THAT go get the youngest whore you can find and bring her home around dinnertime go to your room and bang the hell out of her it will probably cause all sorts of problems but it will make you feel great!
Welcome to the forums Jeffrey. Sorry it's under these circumstances though. OUch Jeffrey. I honestly don't what to say. I've been in your shoes, it's fucked and your hands are tied. Under the circumstances she sounds like major depression has hit and the visit/braggings of her friend pushed her to want what's no possible. Either that or this has built up for awhile. At any rate your wife sounds like she needs help. Help that you or I are incapable giving, a professional needs to be involved. That proccess is a rough one, don't let her drag you down, protect yourself at all costs and separate expenses (ad in the classifieds stating "from this day forward, I...am responsible solely for my own debts) emediately! Get legal advice, and if she need committed get that done . geeze dude, just live it one minute at a time and you'll survive. It won't be easy, but you'll survive.....chapters change all the time. Keep coming back, you'll find a great sense of humor, a few of us old farts, and guys/a couple gals that are into helping with most anything.
If you skydive, there's a chance you fall to your death. You drive your car, you could get into a serious wreck and die. You go hunting, you could seriously hurt someone if you don't watch where you're shooting. You go drinking, your liver could shutdown and kill you. If you want to be that afraid of life, then you should just pack yourself away in a coffin and die right now. I'm sorry...but it just pisses me off when comments like this come along. /rant
i can see why comments like that are made. i mean marriage isn't sacred anymore, back in the day they just gritted there teeth and made that shit work. Now from what I'm noticing the women just leave your ass and take more than half.
It seriously hurts my heart to realize other guys/gals have to feel the devastation, pain, emotional lonelyness and confusion of thier world exploding like this. I've been there so many times, some through my own fault, some not deserved. it never gets easier with age, practice or by locking oneself into a cacoon of bitterness.
