Women are crazy, but my goal has been to upgrade to lower maintiance women. After my experiences with high maint. women, I'd rather get a colonoscopy than date another high maint girl again. But I might make an exception if a one night stands lasts 2 weeks.
So step out of your comfort zone and have a bit of confidence in yourself. Seriously. Posted via Mobile Device
I've said it before and I'll say it again... I kinda like high main. women. I don't know why... Maybe it's the chase??
having a girl chase after you is Cool not too hard to do but if youre looking for gf maTerial... you really don't want a girl thay chases after guys. it Depends on what you are looking for in a for in a girl really. that determines tje approach imo. Posted via Mobile Device
I like being chased frankly. I don't like wasting my time, and don't particularly dig rejection, so dating girls who seek me out has been a pretty reliable method of satisfying both. If I'm not interested I just reject them, BAM!
LOL, YOU guys are the weird ones.... As for chasing, I think it depends. Everyone likes to be liked, so why wouldn't you want to be chased. Of course, I prefer to be pursued. Girls who chase guys... I dunno bout them... Basically I just kind of live my life and if someone great comes by and shows me something special about them, sees something special in me, cool. sure you've seen it... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GxxsP7VWVN8 lol
i flirt/tease/lead girls on too much. its a bad habit that has turned into a subconscious habit thats just natural now and i dont really care to control it. i aint tryin to toot my own horn but sometimes i feel like a real scumbag for breaking their little hearts. I'm just weighing my options! Women do that shit, why cant I??? Like right now i got 4 females thinking imma take them out soon simply because we have great conversations, laugh and play around, flirt, etc etc.. I might do something with one or two.. but even thats unlikely. one of ems already called me a whore, the one i quit talking to called me a womanizer, another called me a player the other day, and another said i "look like a cheater" for the umpteenth time. Those are technically "disqualifies" to me, that lets me know they might be self conscience about themselves and making bad assumptions.
It's all a game of songs and dances. if one song or dance doesn't work, getcher self another. THose people known of as "players"? They just have a shit ton of songs and dances to pull out of thier baggo' trix. Watch as you go out on saturday nights or visit places where guys and gals congregate. It's actually entertaining. Guys: you really want to screw with the mind of HM women? get them to reject you and be entirely OK with it :lol:. It really pisses them off when thier favorite song and dance doesn't work.
I like when girls chase me as well. That way I don't have to do shit except set up a date to fuck. I have had ones that are not very attractive be quite persistent though, and I find it hard to be a dick to girls (most of the time), so it's kind of hard to reject nicely. I did have this one goth girl though who I met through somebody at work, and somehow she got my number and called ALL. THE. TIME. Then she wanted me to drive from Chicago to her parents' house in bumfuck nowhere western IL to meet them. And I talked to her like twice. That was creepy.
wow. you guys are something else. I guess there's a difference between what you say here and how you actually execute stuff with women. This stuff is why I don't gve a shit about guys that I meet and are tryin to get at me. No thanks.
dont let some of us change your mindset on men.. thats the worst thing you could do is become a man hater.. especially in these times that men are being outnumbered by women... so you might wanna get used to the men tryin to get at you, because its only going to get worse.. seeing as youre an already attractive young woman, just enjoy the attention.
Besides, most guys that brag about being a playa, may see .001% of the action they claim. There seems to be a stigma that guysinherit with each generation. It goes something like this: "the #1 rule is competition: scoring females". Most BS thier way to a reputaion that paints them in picture of compliance to impress the other males. When , in fact they really aren't that way at all. Granted, there are the total ass holes, but most guys are only talk. Now that we've let the cat outta the bag concerning the guys, let's take a look at the gals. Deep down, the gals know this about the guys and thier thing goes like this: "the #1 rule is to use the guys' #1 rule to get what gals want". [/world according to wiskas]
LOL you are truly wise wiskas. And torx, I'll never be a man hater, in fact, I love men. lol, I feel like I keep saying that here too. I don't feel like it's all that hard to keep a woman happy. If you can manage that, she'll keep you happy too, you know?
I've had a hard time keeping the type of gal I really didn't want to be with, happy. It wasn't until I actually wrote out a list of exactly what the perfect woman i believed was. Then I looked into where those types were available. I didn't have to change much more than where I searched....my hunting ground, so to speak. When i was looking in all the wrong places, the women I came acrost were the types that thrived on the games they could play on the ass hole guys that seemed to have it all going on. In other words, those types did not want to be treated with respeect and thoughtfullness. When I found what I was looking for, she responded awesomely to being treated well. It's been 11 years and it doesn't seem like a month since we got together. We have the real type of fun. [analogy] if you do not really want to fish for pirranahs, but would rather hook a steelhead, fish in the Great Pacific Northwest instead of the Amazon. Simple, not easy, but simple. [/analogy]
As a general rule, the party scene, the gin mills and the welfare office are dicey. Rule those places out as a hunting ground and the leftover spots may hold a keeper.
Lol....gin mills and welfare offices are generally no good areas for anyone seeking lifetime partners....
Yeah, we had a budy that always fell in love at the bar or with some chick he met at the welfare office. We used to tell him that "even if he was the 7th guy in a gangbang, he'd instantly want to marry the tramp". There was another guy that was always crying around about his GF leaving him for another guy. My mentor and I would get up in his case about his habit of being a shoulder to cry on for chicks that had a fight with their BF's. It's all about motives and methods.
i shouldve saved that picture of whiskas in the boat with his shlong hanging out. thats real pimpin right there.
I beleive that was the left nut. That was the life: floating around on small high lakes all day. BTW: I put trunks on for that pic, there really wasn't a need to wear anything up there. No people around for 20-30 miles.
