Should Men Compete Against Each other for a Woman?

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  1. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    damn, looks like shes had plastic surgery.
    lmao at "disregard females, aquire currency"
  2. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    <-eh, still young and impressionable, who knows? :p

    well, still, I'm not really getting a clear answer bout what men want women to wear. pics?

    everyday stuff I go for skinny jeans and a v-neck, or a hoodie
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    not very feminine but wutev
  3. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    i dont like women who over accessorize. rings, multitudes of bracelets, necklaces and earrings.

    DO NOT WANT. me myself, i dont wear jewelry not even a watch
    i just say wear whatever the woman wants as long as its comfortable to her
  4. ninefivezero

    ninefivezero infinite resolution

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    I'm still crackin up about the "disregard females, acquire currency" picture.

  5. Bear

    Bear Hoot!

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    I don't know...I like it when a girl is dressed girly. Not necessarily pink and fluffy shit but just all-around feminine apparel. Nothing is really appealing about a girl in loose jeans with converse and a nerdy t-shirt. That's just me though and I'm not knocking on the style. I'm sure some guys love that kind of look.

    I mean, if we're indoors and hanging out, scrub it. But if we're going out, please take your normal hour to get ready. I hate waiting, but it's worth it.
  6. Mince

    Mince Never Dice, Always Mince!

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    Yeah, I like the girly girls.

    I'll even go out on a limb here and say, I don't mind dating the high-maintenance ones (as long as they're not crazy coo coo).

    In my experience, these types of girls take care of you the best. It's probably parallel to the fact that they treat themselves with high regard.
  7. Panzer

    Panzer Not a bitch any more

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    In my experience, MOST girls that are high maintaince, have may more then a carry on bag (my limit, but I make exceptions based on fuckability). If they have to check any bagagge, I'll pass. I dated this one this last spring that fed-ex'd that shit. Been dating her for about 2 months then the baggage started arriving, I didnt sign up for that shit. I'm currently dating a very low maintaince girl, and I have to admit it, I enjoy the fact that she doesn't even know how to be passive aggressive, or whiney.
  8. 86mcss

    86mcss Devouring your Soul

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    I am one if the biggest alpha males you will ever meet but I do not fight for a womens attention. They fight for mine.

    The only time I get angry is when another guy thinks he is an alpha male and tries to disrespect me. Then a nigga gets knocked out.

    (edit: i only read like 3 replies from the first page and posted this :))
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    86mcss Devouring your Soul

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  10. Sparky

    Sparky ¿sdooɥʍ

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    Typical asian much? :)
  11. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    lol, apparently skinny jeans, v-necks, and slip ons are a major part of this region (of course the LA people I see on tv do it too). I dunno, my cousin is going to sjsu and she told me lots of people are still doing mostly boot cut and even flair.

    I thought it was an everywhere thing, or at least California. Maybe it skips some areas? lol

    Anyway, those clothes are for doing anything. Clearly if I was going on a date or something my jeans probably wouldn't be ripped up, or I'd wear something actually nice. Those weren't baggy jeans either lol. I have pride in my body and prefer to wear fitted clothes :D (especially jeans)
  12. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    Well I've come a long way from high school (pajama pants, over sized t-shirt, over sized sweatshirt, and slippers). So to me, dress to go out in public, I consider myself pretty girly (usually a mini dress, cardigan, and leggings) but not over doing it. The most jewelry I wear is my class ring, my birthday ring from Will, my Monroe piercing, and the occasional necklace and earrings (which usually end up coming off with in an hour of wearing them).
  13. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    :wtf3:

    you used to wear that shit in public and in school?? LMAO
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    -=Lurker=- **BANNED**

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    I thought I read that wrong as well.... LOL
  15. GiggidyGee

    GiggidyGee Nice bum, where ya from?

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    I have pride in my body, but I prefer the boot cut, not so tight jeans and a long sleeve or hoody.
    This is what I'm wearing right now.
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    I'm not overly girly. I like the way I dress I'm the most comfortable when I'm dressed this way...
    The most jewelry I wear, ever; my piercings...Lip, tongue, belly button and I got my ears pierced in March, I only have one other pair of earrings and they're pot leaves so I don't really switch them up very often. I used to wear a ring every once in a while, but since I can't wear rings at work I just don't wear them anymore. I'm very plain and simple. When I dress to go out, I usually wear jeans and a nice shirt(top) or a dress(bottom)
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    with any of these shoes
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    But then again, the last time I actually went somewhere worthy of dressing up was like last year....
  16. ThatHideousStrength

    ThatHideousStrength Junior Member

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    I'm 24 and I've never really dated, do you guys think girls will use this as a crutch to not date me?

    My assumption is that girls will use this against me but I'm not sure.

    I've gone through hell and back with my self esteem. Now my issue is mostly because I don't really go out of my way to meet women and stuff. It's at the point that I'm kind of afraid that I need to start doing something.
  17. mattdev

    mattdev liberal crybaby

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    Depends, some girls like the innocent guys while others like ones with more experience. I think it's usually the older women that want a more experienced guy.

    My friend is 23 and is still a virgin. He's a really great looking guy, but he has always been extremely shy and kept to himself. About 2 months ago, he met a girl that was very similar to him (22, very attractive, never even kissed a guy) and they're doing extremely well together.

    Edit: Also, don't be afraid to use the Internet for dating. There are plenty of great women out there that hate the entire "bar" thing and use the Internet for dating. Be careful, because there are also quite a few psychos (just like in person). They're just easier to recognize on the internet, I've found :)
  18. GiggidyGee

    GiggidyGee Nice bum, where ya from?

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    Well, if you haven't dated much, I'd think it's because you've been living your own life and I'd think that was intriguing, I'd prefer to date someone that hasn't been in many relationships before. Less baggage and false thoughts about how "all women are"....if that makes sense
  19. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    Haha yeah. I used to have REALLY REALLY low self esteem.
  20. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    lol, I didn't have low self esteem. It's called "I'm not here to impress anyone (you all know me), just trying to fill my brain with some knowledge" OR "I have p.e./practice and am too lazy to be restricted by my regular clothes" OR "I have a test today" lol. something like that.

    As for not really dating, not really a big deal so don't sweat it :) You don't have to ask a girl out on a date to get to know her. I'd rather be more casual about it, and if I want to be alone with a guy, it'll happen. Another reason I like texting. At least you have their number for later if you want to call. Texting is super casual, as long as you don't do it too much too soon.

    An official date kinda puts unnecessary pressure sometimes, doesn't it?
  21. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    well crowe, thats the past.. and youve bloomed like that little pansey flower avatar.. so good on you, gal ;) :D

    yadidda, how about you share some of your photos in a new thread
    you got that photography thing as a hobby i see.
  22. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    lol, sure, I have a final project for photography so I'm sure I'll have good ones soon. I have more pics in my album, did you not see those?