Should Men Compete Against Each other for a Woman?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Torx, Nov 21, 2009.

  1. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    lol, got lazy, here's my facebook profile pic

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  2. poke'man

    poke'man this is Angoon

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    women don't have feelings so it doesn't matter if you're a douche to anybody. you have to resemble a twilight character to get a decent woman nowadays....
  3. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    nuh uhhhhh, lol. You have to resemble a 300 character, duuuh.

    ahh-ooo!
  4. Mr. Ali

    Mr. Ali Junior Member

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    We need bigger, full body high quality pictures yididamean! I deem you IDB worthy tho (this is a great t3d honor btw).

    It seems we got some cute girls on tweak, lets keep this good thing going. WE ARE LESS OF A SAUSAGE FEST GUYS!

    To contribute to this thread (so I don't piss off torx): I would hate to live in the world of torx, fuck having to basically fight another guy for a girl. Not that this doesn't go on every now and then, but it shouldn't be the norm. As a matter of fact, women should line up to have the privilege of going out with us, am i rite guys?
  5. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    Yes, you quality men here on tweak are worth lining up for =]
    Dunno if you want that tho, you'll probably have a ton of crazies in those lines...

    Quality people just need to find each other.
  6. poke'man

    poke'man this is Angoon

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    I don't fight nobody and I get decent attention....













    but then again, it might be because I'm one good looking overweight son of a bitch
  7. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    you do fight. you gotta fight them off with a stick! lol
  8. mattdev

    mattdev liberal crybaby

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    I dunno I think it's ok with some sort of boundaries. Instead of focusing on the other guys bad qualities, maybe, focus on your own good qualities instead. If you take notice that another dude has some sort of problem, don't point it out but rather talk about how you DON'T have this issue.
  9. Torx

    Torx Indigenous Nudist

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    ali hit on something.
    should women be the ones competing for us??

    lol, no man im not fighting or arguing for a chick, thats beneath me.
  10. mattdev

    mattdev liberal crybaby

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    Sometimes they do. Sometimes your female "friends" will attempt to talk down any new girl you bring around. I know it's happened to me more than once... Problem is, I shouldn't have taken that advice.
  11. Yadidamean

    Yadidamean yadidamean?

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    I'm not fighting a girl for a guy. That would be mean since I'd win :p

    Technically, don't women compete every single day? Think of all the stuff we're expected to go through just getting ready for school or work. We're expected to look good all the time. I guess some have to go through more trouble.
  12. Goofus Maximus

    Goofus Maximus Too old to be this dumb!

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    I don't get it. As opposed to what? Sharing her amongst yourselves? If a guy loves someone, and someone else is trying to get her too, what do you think will happen? Rather than saying they are competing for her attention, isn't it more truthful to say they want her attention, and so they compete? All the bad behavior just follows from person's personalities. Attention from that particular girl just happens to be the motivating goal, as opposed to other motivating goals, like promotions, or election to office, for example.

    I can understand why most folks are dumbfounded. It's basically a dumb question! :) Your question is basically "Why do people act the way they do?"

    Christian Conservative Evangelicals decry that "man came from ape", but in reality, man IS an ape! All the behaviors you mentioned, and all behaviors we exhibit, can be seen among the Chimpanzees, including warfare, child abuse, murder, jealousy, fights for power, infidelity, and competition for the attention of girls. They're making a play now, based on a real-life event in an observed Chimpanzee group that basically retold the story of Macbeth.
  13. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    Competition for a mate is just how the game works, throughout time and the entire animal kingdom. Natural selection, we're all looking for the strongest mate so that our DNA will survive and be propagated forward. Guys chose young, attractive women. Women chose attractive, strong alpha males. Every wonder why so many hot young women end up with middle aged men? The silverback of the pack is a highly desirable partner. Not so with the middle aged women, sorry girls! :)

    John Cleese narrated a show about attraction that covered a lot of these topics, pretty interesting stuff.
  14. Goofus Maximus

    Goofus Maximus Too old to be this dumb!

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    Bringing up John Cleese in this context can't help but bring to mind that scene from one of the Monty Python movies, "The Meaning of Life"! "I'm doing this for you, you know! Pay attention!"
  15. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    Sad but true, people compete thier asses off, for chicks and for everything from wars down to the last piece of pie.
    There's a lot of different lables put on competition. The bottom line? It's all self serving and self seeking motivations and what a person puts out, comes back to them.
  16. CroweBaby

    CroweBaby Guest

    This. Women dress up for women, not men. We're constantly judging each other.

    My personal opinion is that fighting is lame, and immature, and I dont respect anyone who puts down another person for their own personal gain or to make themselves look cooler. I root for the underdog.
  17. MSP

    MSP Haunting a dead forum...

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    But why? You're competing for males.
  18. integra00

    integra00 Junior Member

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    Because women ego is 10000000000x worse than the male ego. Just sit back and let a really attractive girl explain why they dress up for women instead of men. it will make your head explode.
  19. nidex

    nidex Junior Member

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    I want to drive the Civic. :(
    But for real...
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    Most bitches aren't worth fighting over anyways, I've done it in the past but it's totally not worth the effort. Just be yourself and don't anticipate anything, if she's worth it she'll stick around. If not, meh.
  20. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    it seems to be a general consensus, that mankind has not evolved away from the primitive animal side of our history. There is a big difference between mankind and the lower members of the animal kingdom, it's about revenge and grudges: (I just now filmed this)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pXHkHgVK7n8

    All four of these bucks are chasing a single doe, that is why they congregated out in the open like this.
    The bigger buck is the "alpha" and the other three lost out and became the betas. They'd jump a doe if they get the chance, but the bigger one was chasing them off. this all changes now because of that hoof injury. So, circumstance can dictate that the inferior get chances too. :-k

    That's the thing about status and belongings, including physical traits.....they can go south in a heartbeat.

    :-k We, as a species is capable of so much more than what we are.
    http://www.tweak3d.net/forums/showthread.php?t=49331
  21. Yadidamean

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    If women dressed for men, how would we dress?
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    ??????

    How do men what women to dress anyway? Enlighten us.:p
  22. mistawiskas

    mistawiskas kik n a and takin names

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    showing all without showing all.....does that make sense? ;)
  23. ivanolo

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    If a guy needs to put others down to make himself look/feel good, he's a worthless piece of shit. And if a woman responds to that, well... don't waste your time.

    Confident dudes exude... confidence (duh!). They don't need to do anything but be themselves in order to attract females.

    Just my opinion.
  24. hans5849

    hans5849 Serious as a heart attack

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    Personally I like variety. Sometimes conservative, sometimes I like pasties only.
  25. GiggidyGee

    GiggidyGee Nice bum, where ya from?

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    oh please oh please oh please...statement?!


    kidding!!!!!!!