Mince: How should I know? I don't know them personnaly. Talked to them a few time in PMs and both are very nice.
I really dont want to talk about this anymore. it happened, we're moving on. end of story. you guys can keep on, but im done with it.
OK, here we go! Everyone get ready, because this is gonna be a long one.... First off, I will just reply to the last message from CroweBaby (aka: The psycho hose beast). She claims I'm pretending to be something I'm not... Now, what might that be? A happy person? Someone with some sense of work ethic and a future? That's just a pathetic attempt at a low blow, if you ask me. Next, she says I'm stingy. Do any of you know how much it costs to support a 300lb woman? That's a lot of food. Food costs money. Also, she went through a lot of clothes... It's tough to be relaxed with money with it is quite literally being eaten away. Next, she calls me a liar. You all know me pretty well, right? You all know that my integrity is pretty damn good. The furthest I have done in regards to lying to her is to not tell the whole truth, to prevent a blow up. For instance: If someone called her fat/ugly/useless, what good does it do to tell it to her? Yet, I was always in trouble for "not telling her everything." I will say that nothing I ever say is an intentional lie. I take great pride in knowing that others can trust my opinion. I work extremely hard with the Navy to maintain my integrity and have the ability to accept when I am wrong. That's what makes the nuclear Navy work. Being able to face the consequences of screwing up no matter the size, taking the corrective action, and moving on. That's why we have never broken anything major or had any sort of a reactor accident. Next, she claims I'm a bastard. Whoop-de-freakin'-do.... Now that one hurt.... It's easy to tell she's just trying to reach for anything she can to jab at me. Crazy much? Next, I only care about material things... This is definitely an interesting one. I care about what I own because I had to buy it. CroweBaby has never had to really earn anything she owns, so why would she care if she lost them? I have had to work non-stop for the last 6 years to get to where I am. I take pride in what I have accomplished, especially since I was down and out for quite some time after my divorce. I wound up with practically nothing, and luckily had friends that helped to get me back on my feet. I will say that I didn't have to go to my parents or any other family member to help me out. I had FRIENDS, unlike CroweBaby's situation. She had no friends to really turn to, since she has thrown so many of them away. She treats them like crap and expects them to just take it. She ignores them, judges them, and is basically a bitch to them. Who would want to be a friend to that? Next, she claims I am bringing a lot of drama to Facebook. Really? Can I get some support from the audience, please? I said nothing on Facebook until well after CroweBaby did. Even then, I didn't have to say much. My friends pretty much expressed everything for me in their 100% support of getting rid of CroweBaby. She continued to throw useless jabs at me and my new girlfriend. She called me Snaggletooth (ooh, that one hurt), and even tried to tell my girlfriend that she is just a rebound girl. I had to laugh at that one, since a rebound girl is generally just to make the other person feel jealous. That's not true by any stretch of the imagination. I am dating my new girlfriend because we have a blast together. She is a very pretty, intelligent, loving person who I really enjoy spending time with. I am really interested in seeing where things go, but we are just taking our time. It's amazing how easy it is to get over an ex when they are a psychotic bitch. Now onto the next topic! She claims to (and I quote), " have a hell of a lot more to be ambitious and responsible now that you're out of my life." SHE IS LIVING WITH HER PARENTS ON THE COUCH!!! She still does not have a job (go figure), and only has a vehicle and money to spend because she gets it from her parents. If that's your opinion of ambition and responsibility, you are pathetic.... Next, she claims I don't have an opinion of my own. That's not it, by far. I do, I just choose to withhold information out of respect for others, or to protect those around me. I am intelligent, and have survived many years on my own (unlike CroweBaby, who has yet to achieve any relationship past 2 years). I most definitely do have my own opinion, and share it often. She claims I'm spineless? Come on, give me a break... I always stand up for what I believe in. Too bad it isn't what CroweBaby was doing most of the time! I believe in being true to my self, and sticking to what I believe in vice supporting another person (no matter how close they are to me) in the wrong things they do. If I felt what she was doing was wrong, I told her. If I didn't support what she was doing, she knew it. It's jut that easy. Next, she says I'm emotionless. I would rather not allow emotion to run my life. That's when you wind up suicidal and try to overdose on Xanax and Lunesta... Your emotions really took care of you in that situation, didn't it CroweBaby? She also says I can't be happy alone. That is the furthest thing from the truth. I do not need anyone else to survive. I have supported myself and 300lbs of dead weight for the last 1.75 years. What else do I need to say about that topic? She was angry at me a majority of the time because I am independent and enjoy my own time. I guess that goes to prove that I need someone else in my life..... :nod: And she says I act nasty waiting for someone to pat me on the back? HA, that's funny... I do what I do to protect myself and my close friends. If I have to defend my own integrity and honor, so be it. As for her dragging my ex-wife into this, you all know how that went... And you all know it's another attempt at a low blow. Once again, how can she say she is mentally stable? Let's be honest here!! Now onto the more entertaining details of the break-up. I will give one situation that shows how bat-shit crazy she is. About a month ago, I had to work a 35 hour shift. I did get around 4 hours of sleep in that time, but it most definitely wasn't enough. I got home, and was tired. The house was dirty as hell (as always), and I didn't feel like cooking. So, CroweBaby asked if we could go out. I asked her where she wanted to go, and she didn't know. So, I threw out a new restaurant that was in Hampton, VA called The Pub (supposedly an authentic British pub, with really good food and British beers). She said it sounded like fun. So, we left the house and began our drive. Because of traffic, it took about 45 minutes to get there. We got there, and as we were driving by the front of the restaurant she looked inside said to me "I'm not going in there, the waitresses are too pretty." ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?!?!?! I parked anyway, and proceeded to talk with her. She said I could go in, but she was staying in the truck. Me, being the nice guy, decided I would just turn the truck around, go home, and order pizza. Then came the return traffic. All 2 hours worth. We got home around 8pm, and I hadn't eaten in quite some time. I was tired, hungry, and just had my time wasted by her because of some sort of an insecurity. So, I told her it's bullshit how I had to pay for her insecurities. Then, I was the insensitive one... Sound like she's a little crazy?!?! Well, for the sake of time, I guess I'd better wrap this up. I need to go to work, to actually support myself and provide for my animals. Thank you all for following in the soap opera known as my life, and have a great day! ~Will Courtier~
I ignored this thread for some time. Glad I decided to actually read it. All I can say is that I don't like to air my dirty laundry on places like this. So I keep a lot of my life private from tweak. I don't specifically keep tweak away from friends and family, most just don't care.
If that restaurant story is true, that's taking insecurities WAY too far. Even my last gf had insecurity issues but she'd never pull that, no way. I'll make her get out of that car.
I'm starting to believe this thread needs to be locked. All this is doing is hurting Crow and Will and will only be a flamable thrown at a flame. This is normal breakup stuff guys. Trading barbs and trying to humiliate/discredit on both sides of the equation here. In 5 years, who's going to care? If it even takes that long.
Jesus tap-dancing christ, I had almost the exact same experience with my ex-wife! I punted that bitch shortly thereafter. Laces out Finkle!
But these are people that've been a part of our community long enough to recieve some compassion. A proccess got started here and guys are using it for their own entertainment at the expense of these two. I really don't think it's cool at all. At first there was some oportunity to kid around, but this has turned brutal and we all have culpability in that.
Yeah, we need to get back on topic or lock this one. I think there's been a lot of tongue biting over this relationship out of respect for Will and now that it's over there's just going to be hurt feelings. But talk about a good example to reinforce the topic? A lot of us keep Tweak separate from our private lives for exactly this reason.
This! I happen to care about every single person on here. Will and Crowbaby both hold a special place and it pains me to see the process I've had to live before. We all kid around alot, that's part of tweak being such a cool site. There comes a time when kidding around crosses a threshold and causes real life trauma though. We are seeing why, not only with this place, but proffesional establishments frown on and even ban interemployee relationships. maybe our favorite nave can answer this: "What's it going to be like when our armed forces start having to deal with this everyday?" I think it's totally unreasonable to expect there's not going to be relationship problems on nuke subs, naval vessels, in mixed platoons, in missile silos, etc. When men and women are expected to bury their basic instincts and ignore the fact that there's a hotty working right besides them in close quarters every single day.(gay or strait) WTF kind of fantasy world is the world living in? (blue pill :unibrow: )
It's just a good ol' fashioned break-up row. I don't think anyone here wishes harm on Will or CB or holds anything against either of them, but they obviously have some things to get off their chests. The cats out of the bag now, so lets make the best of it and sing kumbaya afterwards.
Yeah. I bit off more than I could chew. I have a defense, but it would be pointless to say, so I'm just going to bow out and try to forget things ever happened. I'm sick of fighting. I'm not a fighter.
Nah just update the existing one. How old are you guys that are arguing, grow up and leave that stuff private. Part of being a mature adult is being able to say it's over, cut all contact and begin moving on. Be either the better man or woman and keep your mouth shut. Both of you should be embarrassed, shit talking over the internet is something 10yr olds do b/c of a halo match, there's no need to drag each other in the dirt. I hope none of your real life friends see this shit b/c word always gets around and good luck with the opposite sex when they find out if things don't work out you'll be talking smack about them. p.s. that internet is serious pic is awesome.
Aren't you the head doc? Oh well... hope you guys can put this behind you and as roca said, move on (preferably with no hard feelings.) Meh.
