[Eps]

So this post is tongue-in-cheek, but everything is true.

I've been dating this girl and everytime we kiss I get *excited*. You guys know what I mean. The girls probably do too. Its problematic because when I'm out in public the last thing I want is to be walking down the street having people notice. You don't even want to know the things I've tried thinking about to calm myself down. Is there any kind of anti-viagra available? This wasn't a problem with the last girl I dated =(

[ThatHideousStrength]

oh man, that sucks.

[Bear]

Stop checking her out as a sexual object, that'll help. Keep the kisses clean, friendly. Unless she's making out with you, that's completely different. Poke away...

[Nothing.]

lol. Sorry I don't have much to say except.

This shouldn't be a problem.

[Eps]

Originally Posted by djmihow

oh man, that sucks.

Tell me about it.

Originally Posted by reaver

Stop checking her out as a sexual object, that'll help. Keep the kisses clean, friendly. Unless she's making out with you, that's completely different. Poke away...

Sounds like good advice. The problem is, I'm actually a virgin I've gotten a previous GF to go down but never had sex. So for me, in a new city with a new life and girlfriend, my sex drive is just exploding.

Originally Posted by nothing

ol. Sorry I don't have much to say except.

This shouldn't be a problem.

[BrentN]

LMAO hahahhahaha, oh man, ... where to begin.

Sounds like the last girl you dated was like your sister or something? lol, family members don't count hahahha.

All joking aside let me say this.

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Well thats all the advice I have for you.

[BrentN]

Honestly tho, wich guy doesn't get a woody when they make out with a girl every once in a while.

Usually I get her to touch it.


Im really open about my sexuality with my girl, and she knows it. So when that does happen and we're in a public place, I usually tell her with a wink "just give me two minutes" and she knows exactly what I mean

At that point think about things that are the complete opposite of sex. SUch as work, or blowing up a car. Usually I'll think about random violent things and it goes away pretty fast.

[czechrboard tassia]

as a girl, the best advice i can give you is to talk about it with your girl (if she notices). it'll make it easier for both of you, and maybe if you talk about it with her, you'll feel less stress about it and the situation will fix itself.

[BrentN]

Originally Posted by czechrboard tassia

as a girl, the best advice i can give you is to talk about it with your girl (if she notices). it'll make it easier for both of you, and maybe if you talk about it with her, you'll feel less stress about it and the situation will fix itself.

Couldnt agree more. the more open and comfortable you are about it, knowing that you can't help it and knowing that she knows that as well. The less embarrassing and the more it passes off as just humorous it will all really be.

I will say this though.

Do NOT let her 'notice' it per say if you guys have not had sex yet. LOL

I repeat, do NOT let her 'notice' it for the first time.

[Scooby]

Dude, swivel and tuck.

[Nothing.]

Wear one of these:

[basketofkittens]

Originally Posted by Scooby

Dude, swivel and tuck.

YES

[SoulAssassin]

Drink heavily

[Eps]

Originally Posted by SoulAssassin

Drink heavily

Haha, good ol' whiskey dick.

Originally Posted by brentn

czechrboard tassia wrote:
as a girl, the best advice i can give you is to talk about it with your girl (if she notices). it'll make it easier for both of you, and maybe if you talk about it with her, you'll feel less stress about it and the situation will fix itself.


Couldnt agree more. the more open and comfortable you are about it, knowing that you can't help it and knowing that she knows that as well. The less embarrassing and the more it passes off as just humorous it will all really be.

I will say this though.

Do NOT let her 'notice' it per say if you guys have not had sex yet. LOL

I repeat, do NOT let her 'notice' it for the first time.

Ya well the first time we made out she noticed. We both laughed it off while she asked "having problems?" Ironically, yes I am.

Edit: So yes, its out in the open and all. Its still embarrassing =/

[gB dAvId x]

lol, sorry dude, this thread is funny lol :P

At least she knows you like her, lol, if you weren't having problems, she would think she didn't turn you on!

[BrentN]

well thats your problem right there, your embarrased about it.

Nothing to be a ashamed of, your a man, act like one.

To releave the tension just tell her jokingly, "see look what you've made me do" and laugh it off. You can then also break the tension for yourself by just thinking aloud the things that you think about to get rid of a hardon. She'll laugh and like you more for it.

[Scooby]

Girls dont really mind dude. In secret they like it.

[hans5849]

Hell im a walkign boner

[czechrboard tassia]

Originally Posted by Scooby

Girls dont really mind dude. In secret they like it.

qft. it's a total compliment to the girl/confidence booster imo.

[Cr@cKpiPe tE@sEr noOb!]

Either wack it like 4 times within the hour before u go out with her, or...

Acknowledge it but in a very embaressed way. She'll think it's "cute" that you're all flushed and it shows that you have respect for her becuase you arent shoving it in your face and are actually trying to get rid of it. You'll look like a weak fool and she'll feel powerful and girls like that so you win, secretly.